Showing posts with label Bible. Show all posts
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Tuesday, July 13, 2021

Edward Harned (1831-1904) - The Youngest

 

Edward Harned 1831-1904
(colorized by My Heritage)



Quakers John Harned and Phebe Laing married 27 March 1811 and ten months later, Jennette was born. Then came Rachel, Jonathan, Jacob, Mary, John, Phebe, Benjamin Franklin, Joseph, Rebecca and bringing up the rear, child #11 was our direct ancestor, Edward Harned. He arrived 10 Jan 1831 in Woodbridge, New Jersey. On a side note, I had a Harned 'cousin' challenge me on whether Edward was in this family or not. As you can see, he was the last born, there at the bottom left. There is also a Quaker Meeting record showing his birth and his parents.
  His mother, Phebe, died when he was just 8 years old. His father married Elizabeth Shotwell 4 years later. We can assume Edward had a fairly typical Quaker upbringing, but there are no records from his childhood or youth.

  Quakers believed in the inner light – the idea that God was a spiritual presence within each individual and could speak to all humans through the words and actions of anyone. Quaker meetinghouses were unadorned spaces where men and women worshipped equally. On Sundays, which they called ‘First Day,” they worshipped in silence, waiting until “the spirit found them,” and inspired them to speak. They tended to reject worldliness and became easy to recognize because of their use of the pronouns ‘thee’ and ‘thou’ and their refusal to doff their hats to social superiors since they believed in a spiritual equality. Edward’s father, John, passed away in 1848, when Edward was just 17. At age 20, Edward received his legacy from his father’s will: $300. [Today this would be almost $10,000.] In the next year or so, he married Hannah Anne Yardley. They had 6 children: Lydia, Harriet (our ancestor), Horace, Ruthanna, John, and Anna. From tax records in the mid-1850s we can see that Edward bought himself a farm in Bucks County, Pennsylvania, probably made possible by his legacy from his father. He had 35 acres of land worth $48/acre, 2 horses and 3 cattle. The taxable value was $1793. By 1860 he and his family are living in Bel Air, Maryland, on a farm valued at $6000. But in 1870 they are back in Bucks County. Wouldn’t we like knowing what that move was about?


In 1863 he registered for the draft, but his record says “Paid Commutation.” The Quakers took this stance: “We utterly deny all outward wars and strife and fighting with outward weapons for any end or under any pretense whatever; this is our testimony to the whole world.” [George Fox] In the North, if a man called to military service could provide a substitute or pay a $300 Commutation Fee, he was exempted from serving. It appears that Edward’s conscience didn’t allow him to serve, though where he would have come up with $300 is not known. In 1873 a “Certificate of Removal” from Rahway, NJ (Plainfield Monthly Meeting) recommended him as a member in the Mt. Holly Monthly Meeting, Burlington, New Jersey. So they’ve moved again.

He has been hired to take care of the Mt. Holly meetinghouse in 1880. He was to be paid $32 per year! Later that year the Mt. Holly Meeting was informed that Edward Harned was not satisfied with his pay, so they raised it to $40/year. In 1884 his pay was raised to $4/month! In 1891 Edward requested that his Certificate be transferred to Haddonfield from Mt. Holly because he would be nearer the Camden Meeting. His daughter, Harriet had married William C. Forman in 1886 and was living in the Camden area, as was his son, Horace, so they probably wanted to be near their children as they got older.
Edward passed away 2 May 1904 and was buried in the Mt. Holly Friends’ Burial Ground. Hannah died 10 Jun 1910 and was buried next to him. Our ancestry: Edward & Hannah Anne Yardley Harned >> Harriet Yardley Harned >> Edgar Charles Forman >> Edgar Ross, Ivan Lake or Ward Harned Forman




Sunday, February 10, 2019

The Forman Family Bible

On Friday 14 September 2018, I received a strange email via Ancestry.com's Message Center from a Vicky Marquis. She wrote that she watched the shopgoodwill.com auction sites for old family Bibles in the hope of reconnecting them with their family members. (First of all, isn't that an amazing endeavor!?!) She said there was an 1819 Holy Bible with a long list of lineage that looked as though it might belong to my family through Isaac Forman.


We have an Isaac Forman in this time period, who we were pretty sure was the father of Samuel L. Forman since they were buried in the same plot. But nothing concrete connected them.

I went to look at the photos of this auction, with absolutely no expectations… So imagine my shock and surprise to see Isaac Forman's name as the father of Samuel LONGSTREET Forman, and other family members whose names I recognized. PLUS a huge list of names I had never known before!
At the top, Mary's 2 sons from her first marriage. Samuel Longstreet Forman son of Isaac and Mary Forman was born November 22 1805. (Siblings: Julian, Jane Emilia, Harriet and William )

I put in a large bid and waited anxiously, but I just knew that Bible was coming home, and it did! I'm sure it's hard to tell from the photo but it's 11"x 9" by 4" thick. It is covered in an animal skin – there is a loose note tucked inside that says the animal skin was from an animal [looks like a deer] killed by Isaac Forman (1767-1849) – so it's old! The Bible has an interesting smell – kind of like wood smoke and old paper.

Mary & Isaac's birthdates, followed by the names and birthdates of Isaac's children with
1st wife, Emilia or Emily (Eliza, Mariah, Susan Woodrow, Thomas)

The children of  Isaac's parents Thomas and Elizabeth Forman (Mary, Thomas, Rebecca
Elizabeth, Isaac, Sarah, William)

Deaths of: Peter Wm. Grayham (Mary's son from her first marriage), Isaac, Samuel L, Julian,
Jane Emilia Rogers, Susan - no information there, Harriet Forman Arrison
I had high hopes that there would be more pages of names besides the ones shown in the auction photos. Turns out there were 2 additional pages. The first is for marriages and shows Isaac's marriage to his second wife, Mary. (23 January 1805) No other records on this page.

Deaths of both of Isaac's wives. The only records on this page.

What we know now that we didn't know before the Bible:

  • Isaac Forman is the father of Samuel L. Forman
  • The "L" in Samuel's name stands for Longstreet.
  • Isaac's wife Mary (1774-1841) is the mother of Samuel and 4 other children. (She's also buried in the plot so we had assumed this connection…)
  • Isaac had a first wife – Emilia, and 4 children with her.
  • Mary had a first husband – William Grayham [Graham], and had 2 boys with him.
  • So this was a yours, mine, and ours family – 11 children in total!
  • We now also know that Isaac's parents are Thomas Forman and Elizabeth (don't know her maiden name unfortunately.) And his 6 siblings' names and dates of birth. 
  • Also some other marriage and death dates. 

With this information I have been able to ascertain that Isaac's wife, Mary, was the daughter of Samuel Longstreet, and I've found the names of all of Mary's 5 siblings. This was all in a will (snippet below)  that established Mary as the wife of Isaac Forman.

I have also found a record for their marriage. (They were married 23 Jan 1805 in Middlesex, New Jersey.)


I've heard of these kinds of 'miracle' stories but never expected to experience one myself. I am so happy to have the Bible back in the family. I have it stored in an archival box wrapped in archival tissue. I shared it at the last family Christmas party/brunch. I'm anxious for family members to see it since it actually belongs to us all.

Just so you understand where this Forman line extends:
Edgar C. Forman (1896-1981)<<Wm C Forman(1859-1934)<<Wm Lake Forman(1829-1919)<<Samuel L Forman(1805-1844)<<Isaac Forman (1867-1849)<<Thomas Forman (1735-????)